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NaBloPoMo Monday, November 18, 2013
Tell us about a blog post that you didn’t publish.

I wish I had a juicy story to tell here. I don’t.

Sure, I’ve started some flash fiction pieces that fell short of my expectations and never saw the light of day. But I’ve never drafted a personal memoir or a soap-box rant then refrained from releasing it into the wild because in the narrative I may have stepped on toes or crossed some line of privacy/courtesy/respect. It’s never happened because I am so concerned with what other people think and feel that I shy away from certain topics altogether.

As a wanna-be writer, it makes me uncomfortable to know that I am censoring my thoughts, words, and ideas before they even hit the screen. I struggle between needing the freedom to tell my story, whether it be fact or fiction, in any way I choose, with respecting the feelings of those who might read my words, be they family, friends, or strangers.

Will a family member be embarrassed if I recount a funny incident from childhood?

Will friends question my morals and my sanity if I dream up a gruesome murder or a racy tryst in next week’s flash fiction piece?

Will I incite a venomous riot of hateful comments if I share my views on gun ownership or Obamacare or animal cruelty?

Will the drunken rednecks who nearly incinerated my entire street last week with their gasoline-fueled idiocy vandalize my house in retaliation if I tell the story?

Questions like these make me wonder if I wouldn’t have done better writing in a personal journal rather than publishing on a public blog. And they make me doubt my ability to ever churn out a novel.

You writers out there, how do I get to a place where I don’t give a rip about anyone else’s opinion and can just set my story free?

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Save it for a rainy day

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NaBloPoMo Friday, November 15, 2013
If you could quit one bad habit instantly without difficulty, which would it be?

I would quit collecting projects for a rainy day. At this moment, I would need at least one, but probably two or three, biblical rainstorms in order to complete all the projects I’ve been saving. So while the rest of y’all are building arks, I’ll be:

  1. Refinishing a chair
  2. Making a headboard
  3. Re-upholstering a set of four chairs
  4. Importing my collection of cut-out recipes to my digital cookbook
  5. Cleaning out my email folders
  6. Designing and planting flower borders around the house
  7. Writing a book
  8. Finishing a baby blanket for my cousin’s new baby
  9. Purging the Word docs on my computer
  10. Organizing five years worth of digital photographs
  11. Repainting a dresser
  12. Embroidering a Christmas stocking
  13. Making a Japan scrapbook…
  14. …then making an England scrapbook
  15. Stripping and painting a pair of antique wicker chairs
  16. Re-upholstering the cushions of the aforementioned wicker chairs
  17. Cleaning out the craft room to identify projects I’ve forgotten I’ve collected…

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Lark or owl?

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NaBloPoMo Thursday, November 14, 2013
Are you a morning person or a night owl?

Living in England taught me that more than lark or owl, I’m simply a daylight person. The earlier the sun rises, the earlier I rise. The earlier the sun sets, the earlier I crash. During British summer time, I had some long, productive days, seeing as the sun was up around 3:30 a.m. and didn’t truly set till after 10:00 p.m. Winter, though, was rough. It was difficult to get out of bed before 8:30 a.m. and I would have happily crawled back under the covers when the sun went down at 4:00 p.m.

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The eleventh minute of the eleventh hour

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NaBloPoMo Wednesday, November 13, 2013
What is your favorite hour of the day?

My answer is totally a product of the digital age. In an analog world, eleven eleven slides right by me unnoticed. Digital clocks are really the only reason I have a favorite hour…I still remember the first time I saw 11:11 on my very own alarm clock, and how completely right it looked. I suspect it appeals to the obsessive-compulsive side of my personality, as does my second favorite time, twelve thirty-four. Twelve thirty-four gets even better fifty-six seconds in if the clock has a six-digit display…12:34:56 rocks!

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No science experiments here

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NaBloPoMo Tuesday, November 12, 2013
Name five things inside your refrigerator right now and how you feel about them.

There’s one sure benefit of having just recently moved into our house…there hasn’t been enough time for scary things to be happening inside the refrigerator! If you push around the leftovers and various jars of pickles, you’ll find the following in my fridge:

1. A small glass bottle of milk. The milk is just regular old 2% from Food Lion, but the bottle itself is special. It’s a single-serve bottle the hubby purchased from a rest stop convenience market during one of our road trips in Japan. It’s in use now because someone doesn’t like pouring milk from the big gallon carton into his coffee cup. So I get the benefit of being reminded of our three wonderful years in Japan every time I open the fridge.

2. A bowl of salad. I was making lunches for the hubby last night, and made an extra salad for myself. I am much better about eating healthy lunches if I don’t have to stop in the middle of whatever I’m doing during the day to make it. So at least one day this week, I’ll eat well!

3. A third of a loaf of gluten free bread. I hate gluten free bread. But Wonder bread hates me. Thus that horrible loaf mocks me every time I open the fridge to find something for lunch. The days of soft, stick-to-the-roof-of-your-mouth peanut butter and jelly sandwiches are gone. GF bread is totally unsuitable for sandwiches, or for much of anything else for that matter.

4. Enbrel. This injectable medication has been a savior in controlling my rheumatoid arthritis. I am so grateful for its positive impact on my life that I don’t even begrudge the precious shelf space it inhabits.

5. Half a bunch of grapes. This is really the only thing in the fridge that is starting to border on scary. The grapes are about three days away from becoming raisins. I won’t eat them in their current state. But I feel incredibly guilty throwing away food, so they will sit there in the crisper until I need the space to lay in supplies for the big family Thanksgiving dinner.

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Posted by on November 12, 2013 in Challenges, True Life

 

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I DON’T wanna be a star

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NaBloPoMo Monday, November 11, 2013
If you had to be trapped inside a movie for 5 days, which movie would you pick?

I’ve been wracking my brain for three days, desperately trying to come up with a movie I could bear for five days. It’s been a fruitless search.

However, I’ve come up with a list of ten movies I would NOT want to be trapped in for any amount of time:

  1. Paranormal Activity (1, 2, 3, or 4)–too many things going bump in the night
  2. Backdraft–too hot
  3. Poltergeist–too freakin’ scary
  4. Glory–too much of man’s inhumanity to man
  5. Saving Private Ryan–too many horrors of war
  6. Schindler’s List–too much hatred and bigotry
  7. Titanic–too wet
  8. It–too much clown
  9. G.I. Jane–too physically/mentally grueling
  10. Terminator–too many bad cyborgs

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Travel theme: Connections


NaBloPoMo Sunday, November 10, 2013

Free day for NaBloPoMo, so I’m choosing to participate in Ailsa’s weekly photo challenge over at Where’s My Backpack? The theme for this week is “connections,” to be interpreted however we choose. You can see Ailsa’s own amazing photos here.

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