I figure based solely on my age, that I’m about halfway through my life’s story, give or take a few pages. I’m grateful that I have ownership of the rest of my story. In the early chapters of my book, I was, to some extent, following someone else’s storyline–that’s just a natural part of growing up. For the rest of my story, however, I am the author, creating my own storyline. I choose which characters co-star in my story, and which adventures fill the pages. I know there will still be some plot twists beyond my control, but I find myself looking forward to savoring each new page, uncharacteristically in no rush to get to the end of the book.
Gratitude Photo Day 13: Rest
The eleventh minute of the eleventh hour

NaBloPoMo Wednesday, November 13, 2013
What is your favorite hour of the day?
My answer is totally a product of the digital age. In an analog world, eleven eleven slides right by me unnoticed. Digital clocks are really the only reason I have a favorite hour…I still remember the first time I saw 11:11 on my very own alarm clock, and how completely right it looked. I suspect it appeals to the obsessive-compulsive side of my personality, as does my second favorite time, twelve thirty-four. Twelve thirty-four gets even better fifty-six seconds in if the clock has a six-digit display…12:34:56 rocks!
Gratitude Photo Day 12: Nature
“I go to nature to be soothed and healed,
and to have my senses put in order.”
~John Burroughs
I am grateful for those unexpected moments, when nature soothes and heals parts of me that I didn’t even know were hurt or broken. I thought I felt fine when I headed out for a walk a couple weeks ago, but after soaking in this moment of stillness, I felt a thousand times better…happier, clear-headed, more serene.
No science experiments here
NaBloPoMo Tuesday, November 12, 2013
Name five things inside your refrigerator right now and how you feel about them.
There’s one sure benefit of having just recently moved into our house…there hasn’t been enough time for scary things to be happening inside the refrigerator! If you push around the leftovers and various jars of pickles, you’ll find the following in my fridge:
1. A small glass bottle of milk. The milk is just regular old 2% from Food Lion, but the bottle itself is special. It’s a single-serve bottle the hubby purchased from a rest stop convenience market during one of our road trips in Japan. It’s in use now because someone doesn’t like pouring milk from the big gallon carton into his coffee cup. So I get the benefit of being reminded of our three wonderful years in Japan every time I open the fridge.
2. A bowl of salad. I was making lunches for the hubby last night, and made an extra salad for myself. I am much better about eating healthy lunches if I don’t have to stop in the middle of whatever I’m doing during the day to make it. So at least one day this week, I’ll eat well!
3. A third of a loaf of gluten free bread. I hate gluten free bread. But Wonder bread hates me. Thus that horrible loaf mocks me every time I open the fridge to find something for lunch. The days of soft, stick-to-the-roof-of-your-mouth peanut butter and jelly sandwiches are gone. GF bread is totally unsuitable for sandwiches, or for much of anything else for that matter.
4. Enbrel. This injectable medication has been a savior in controlling my rheumatoid arthritis. I am so grateful for its positive impact on my life that I don’t even begrudge the precious shelf space it inhabits.
5. Half a bunch of grapes. This is really the only thing in the fridge that is starting to border on scary. The grapes are about three days away from becoming raisins. I won’t eat them in their current state. But I feel incredibly guilty throwing away food, so they will sit there in the crisper until I need the space to lay in supplies for the big family Thanksgiving dinner.
I DON’T wanna be a star
NaBloPoMo Monday, November 11, 2013
If you had to be trapped inside a movie for 5 days, which movie would you pick?
I’ve been wracking my brain for three days, desperately trying to come up with a movie I could bear for five days. It’s been a fruitless search.
However, I’ve come up with a list of ten movies I would NOT want to be trapped in for any amount of time:
- Paranormal Activity (1, 2, 3, or 4)–too many things going bump in the night
- Backdraft–too hot
- Poltergeist–too freakin’ scary
- Glory–too much of man’s inhumanity to man
- Saving Private Ryan–too many horrors of war
- Schindler’s List–too much hatred and bigotry
- Titanic–too wet
- It–too much clown
- G.I. Jane–too physically/mentally grueling
- Terminator–too many bad cyborgs
Gratitude Photo Day 10: Words
I am always surrounded by words. Some are my own, some I just borrow from others for a little while. But the best words this week came in the form of a completely unexpected handwritten note from a stranger. We just sold some outdoor furniture last week on craigslist…a lady saw the posting online and emailed me saying she’d shown it to her parents, who wanted to purchase the set for their new house, and that she had enlisted her daughter (who lives much closer to us) to come and pick it up. A real family affair…three generations involved in the transaction. So I’ve emailed the mom and met the daughter, but had no contact with the actual new owners of the furniture. Until today. The couple sent a two-line thank you on a plain white square of notepaper– nothing at all fancy about it, but it totally made my day. After all the crazy, incoherent, and just plain rude responses we had to the ad, I was especially grateful for these kind words.






